I have been playing chess now off and on for more than 30 years, since I was 8 years old. I think chess appeals to me because I have a mind that enjoys solving problems. Sometimes I enjoy creating problems, and then solving the problems I created. "Where is the answer?" is the question that constantly rings in my head, whether I'm playing chess or not. I'm sure that there are millions of chess players who can identify with this.
My wife, who has known me now for about 20 years, understood my obsession with solving problems before she married me. And I've gotten better over the years at putting chess in its rightful place in my life. Life has presented me with a number of problems to solve, so over the years my frequency of playing chess has diminished. That being said, I don't think I'll ever go cold turkey. Thank God for the internet!
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