In response to the OP, look for a "strong player" at your OTB tournaments. Try to find a master or someone strong enough to score at least 80% against you at your best. If you are lucky enough to find a coach with years of experience, they will be able to tell you how you are doing. Two or three performances should be sufficient to determine where you are headed.
About these "opening recommendations," if you are not [a certain rating that varies from coach to coach, but is generally accepted to be just under master level], trying to do openings is not the best way to go. You will develop habits regarding memorization of moves and lack the foundation required to improve to master level or higher. This pattern will leave you near your current rating until you stop focusing on openings and start with [either tactics, positional play, guess the move exercises, or another method recommended by a coach].
Unless you are already a professional coach or have extensive chess experience, please refrain from advising players below [the rating ranges usually are 1600 to 2100 uscf/fide, depending on the player's level of chess understanding] of focusing on openings. You will be doing them a disservice and further help will be ineffective.
I don't like to study openings a LOT.I am just trying to understand the structures which suits me the best.I'm a positional player and practise tactics on/offline everyday.
I don't have enough friends.The players higher rated here have a BIG EGO.So, it's not so easy to make them friends.Even if we are friends,they don't tell their so called SECRETS with us(the lower-rated ones).But,I really appreciate your advice.
from rating we wont judge anydody becoz its in u to improve ur game by analizing games and viewing problem and by practicing chess every day for 4 hours the one do all the things will become grandmaster !!!!! so even if ur playing against 1001 rated players in an fide tournament ......!!!!!!!!!!!!! pls dont judge anybody by rating
I don't under-estimate any one as I know that 'Don't under-estimate the Power of a common man'!!