relax and be yourself

Answer the question tom...

you're continually running away, hiding.

If you want people to be themselves, then why do you hide behind a profile pic of a famous actor? Trying to be someone you're not?

So tom...

People choose a pic for a reason. It is not random, drawn out of a hat. My pic Is of the Grand Canyon that I took. I live there. Very few people choose a real life photo of another person. They may choose fictional characters, depictions of animals etc. It is obvious they are not that character. However. you on the other hand make an intentional attempt to deceive people (many think the pic is you) or you in some way "relate" to Jake Gyllenhaal, either you want to be like him or possibly you admire him. Either way, it is not You. You've stressed how important it is for people to be themselves,

so I ask again... Who are you?

You're not Jake Gyllenhaal.

The following 'News-page' searched, "Jake Gyllenhaal" link.. May-or-may-Not, be 'theraputic' for 'tom' _ Even, if the question remains.. Other, than some possible 'doppelganger' factor.. I'll take it, 'on faith'.. that there's some 'escapist' {'tom'}, role-model 'magnetism' here. -- As for myself ? ..'Ph-i-s-s-h'

http://www.irishexaminer.com/technow/movies/the-division-movie-will-star-jake-gyllenhaal-and-jessica-chastain-413908.html

Yes, unfortunately your appearance will take you to a new level of ego issues,  when dealing with some people. So it's not that it helps much. -lol-

'Giving, credit-where-credit-is-due' ..Ie. I'd sooner have an after-dinner  drink/'get-together' with 'tom'.. than "Heinrich Himmler".. Since, we're All 'immortal souls'.  ..{based on a 'comedian's joke, re. a 'present-in-attendence' "Mel Gibson".. with, a 'No-show'.. "Bill Cosby"}.

http://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-horrifying-nazi-era-diaries-of-himmler-found-in-russia

Here's a hint tom... SA doesn't give a rats ass about "being company" He has an agenda to thump his bible. You are the only person who won't block him. He posts in other threads, keeps most of it low brow; knowing repeated quoting of Scripture will result in being blocked.

Weren't you supposed to be at work today? I'd sure like a job where I could spend the entire day at chess.com.

tomtrytostay wrote:

If there is something that's real it's experience. We can talk about the I idea all we like but what is the I without experience?

So tom... do you realize how hypocritical you truly are?

Last half dozen threads you've been shouting there is no self.The self is an illusion.

Now you want to discuss the "I" and experiences?

To what end

Today, tomorrow even the next post you'll make a 180 degree reversal, contradict everything you've said

Ever wonder why NOBODY discusses any of the questions you raise about lifes experiances?

It is because you're a fraud, a liar, living in denial and unable to look yourself in the mirror.

Not to worry tom...

no worries!

You have yet to engage me ...ever in conversation ever.

No rush to begin now. We both know it will never happen.

Not unless you come out of that closet, face reality head on, be yourself and stop denying your existance.

Hope, I won't be 'sullying' 'tom's mind, {re. the 'Canuck' 'pm'}.. with this informal 'news' reference, to "Justin Trudeau"!?

http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-36965923

"Trust me - 'Wi-fi'.. has its' Own challenges! - Ie. Being, on a 'wireless' connection.. with More-than-a-few, Other tenants.. In an apartment building"!  ] ;