what do you want out of a game of chess?

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Monet1971
I'm just wondering.

I mean is it more rewarding to win? Or to enjoy being creative? Is it about expressing ourselves? How to be happy playing chess?

I used to try to win but lately I'm so defensive I'm bored stupid.
VladimirHerceg91

Tom, maybe you should move this to General Chess discussion. Seems like this thread isn't actually off-topic. 

president_max

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in other words, chess is where you can just be yourself.

president_max

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chess is just being yourself music

president_max

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chess is just being yourself art

president_max

oops, i think you've already covered all that ...

fathamster

I like a good chat, sometimes i play chess as well...

Monet1971
I know. I get all that talk stuff. I'm talking about the game itself.

I don't know that it is on topic really. I'm not asking how to be good at chess, I'm asking how to enjoy it.

What's the best approach to get the most satisfaction?

Should I try to win or maybe just attack or what?

I want to have fun. How best to enjoy it?