the only way to see it is to play the line all the way out, not just look at the weird computer moves in isolation. Take the position from there vs max computer, play the move and the next 10 after, see if you can follow how its better. Sometimes its really hard to spot the advantage, and sometimes the advantage is so small normal humans (under 2000ish) won't see the reasons even played out, let alone from the original setup.
Best as I can tell on this one, a4 defends both the pawn and the bishop (protect each other) so the queen and/or knight can move freely. Why it rejects BxN after a4 for black, though, I do not see it.
Also read the computer spew with both eyes open. D3 is a mistake (???!!!) is nonsense, you are 0.0 (perfectly matched) afterwards (in my book a mistake sets you back). I would call it an inaccuracy (missed a chance to do better). Its not a 'bad' move. Your king is a little more vulnerable, but he can do that either way, BxN is what I would do as black no matter what you do, unless you find an attack.
Would someone explain how I can go about understanding WHY the indicated move is best versus my mistaken move, please. It would be a tremendous help if you could use the attached image as an example, as I do not know how to determine why 14.a4 is the best move. And, why does a4 (over d3) refute the Bxf3??
Thank you!