for all the girls on chess.com.....

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madhacker
Babytigrrr wrote:

Can males be prejudiced against males?  Ok... why do you think the OP is pulling pigtails here?

As far as I can tell, the OP is prejudiced against both genders. He regards men as sex-crazed apes with a disconnect between our neurons and reproductive organs, and he regards women as eye-candy and playthings with no independent purpose in life.

In other words, he needs to get a life and spend some time interacting with normal humans away from his computer screen.

Senator-Blutarsky

It's in his DNA, D-D-D-DNA,
It's in his DNA.
And he just takes my breath away,
B-b-b-breath away.
I feel it every day. It's in his D-D-D-D-DNA.


And that's what makes a man,
Not hard to understand.
Perving in every way,
I see it in his face.
Nothing more to say,
Its in his D-D-D-DNA.

NakedChick

When I show up at a chess club in person, I often get asked a question something like:  "Hey, you're a woman.  How come there are so few women who come play chess here?"  If someone asked me that (or why I play mainly in the women's groups here) I would just point at this discussion as a great example. Chess, unfortunately, is one of the handful of places where blatant,

Thank you to the gentlemen and everyone else here who understands that a woman who does virtually anything, including identifying herself as a woman, or being sensuous, or simply existing, is not "asking for it."  She is not asking for sexual harrassment, she is not asking for obscene messages, and she is not asking for every guy on the site to hit on her.  She's just existing.  In fact, the only time she is asking for it is . . . when she asks for it!

marcosite

I'm driven to reply again.  If you chess-playing men are looking for ladies then you are on the wrong site.  If, as a woman, you are here for the attention, you too, are on the wrong site.  Obviously, be you male or female, you like chess so just play the game & switch off anybody with the wrong idea.  Clear as mud.

Kasporov_Jr
marcosite wrote:

I'm driven to reply again.  If you chess-playing men are looking for ladies then you are on the wrong site.  If, as a woman, you are here for the attention, you too, are on the wrong site.  Obviously, be you male or female, you like chess so just play the game & switch off anybody with the wrong idea.  Clear as mud.

your a girl, you have no idea what goes on a man's mind when he's confronted with a female so stop posting such ignorant posts

Kasporov_Jr
NakedChick wrote:

When I show up at a chess club in person, I often get asked a question something like:  "Hey, you're a woman.  How come there are so few women who come play chess here?"  If someone asked me that (or why I play mainly in the women's groups here) I would just point at this discussion as a great example. Chess, unfortunately, is one of the handful of places where blatant,

Thank you to the gentlemen and everyone else here who understands that a woman who does virtually anything, including identifying herself as a woman, or being sensuous, or simply existing, is not "asking for it."  She is not asking for sexual harrassment, she is not asking for obscene messages, and she is not asking for every guy on the site to hit on her.  She's just existing.  In fact, the only time she is asking for it is . . . when she asks for it!

your name is '' Naked Chick"

 

you pretty much are responsible for all the guys who message you, you set up yourself for this .

madhacker

[Comment deleted, I should not have written that. I still think the OP needs a good hard look at himself though.]

Senator-Blutarsky

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xxPrincess_Beckyxx

Kasporov_Jr why can't you learn to take responsibility for your own actions??  Nobody is forcing guys to hit upon other girls no matter how provocative their avatar or username may be, unless you really are a bunch of sex-crazed apes with no self-control??  In which case I feel sorry for you, otherwise learn to show other people respect and maybe you might get some in return.

RonaldJosephCote

                     Kasparov;  post 250 is hillarious.  "you have NO idea what goes on in a man's/boy's mind when he's approached by a female".  Yes we do. Its called pure paralizing 100% FEAR!  Also refered to as the fight or flight mechanism.

Sossitch

We probably don't have to worry about harassment unless we change our avatar to a box of Twinkies. 

 

 

"oh... yeah.. ride em cowboy!"

Angelplaygirl

oh its nothing :))

marcosite
Kasporov_Jr wrote:
marcosite wrote:

I'm driven to reply again.  If you chess-playing men are looking for ladies then you are on the wrong site.  If, as a woman, you are here for the attention, you too, are on the wrong site.  Obviously, be you male or female, you like chess so just play the game & switch off anybody with the wrong idea.  Clear as mud.

your a girl, you have no idea what goes on a man's mind when he's confronted with a female so stop posting such ignorant posts

No, I have no idea what goes on in YOUR mind.

One of us is ignorant & It's you.

marcosite

I like Naked Chicks bold avatar.  Read back, it was probably Connors dog.

Kasporov_Jr

Its called sex drive & its perfectly normal unless your asexual like yourself

Senator-Blutarsky wrote:

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NakedChick

Optimissed wrote:

Naked Chick:"She's just existing.  In fact, the only time she is asking for it is . . . when she asks for it!"Haha, no the fact is that your agenda is woman-empowering but male-disempowering ... because you imply that a female can "ask for it" but ... a man cannot. Or should not. Who plucked *your* feathers? :P 

I imply no such thing. Men can ask for it too. Women can say no. Men should respect that.

By the same token, women can ask for things too. Men can say no. And women should respect that.

But we weren't discussing men. See the topic: for all the girls on chess.com. Not many men are also girls. :-)

Senator-Blutarsky
Kasporov_Jr wrote:

Its called sex drive & its perfectly normal unless your asexual like yourself

Senator-Blutarsky wrote:

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oh dear.... name calling!! i'm frightened now Frown

Elubas

"I imply no such thing. Men can ask for it too."

Wait... we can? Sweet!

NakedChick

A topic entitled "for all the girls on chess.com....." is about men? I thought men were boys, not girls. But maybe I missed something in sex education class. :) It seemed that this thread was about a person telling all the women on chess?com that we are asking for harassment because we do things like exist and fail to lie about our gender and things like that.

Elubas

If in discussing women it becomes relevant to bring up men (for example, bringing up a man harassing a woman), it probably helps the discussion. Maybe. But it's more interesting when things get a little off topic anyway -- makes one feel less confined :)

And yeah, I heard that men are boys too, but maybe we should ask some more people to get a more reliable consensus :)