relax and be yourself

Hello and welcome. All are welcome here. Say what you want when you want.

This is a place for self expression and live conversation.

TOM-TOM.Do I get a sense of "Deja Vu" ?

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its the eye of the tiger dude

No

My thread 'relax and kill yourself' is better than this one.

Good morning guys. Groundhog Day. Actually there never was a topic. Much like nature just is so the potential to just relax and be you just is.

The reason that I create a new one is lag. Why wait around? Come 500 posts start a new thread.

I like this thread is a blank piece of paper. It's as good as you want to make it. After all I'm not always around so feel free to express yourself and show what you can do.

I'd like everyone to know that they are welcome to post as often as they like about whatever they like and it doesn't matter whether they like me or want to engage me.

That said no one visiting the threads needs be lonely. I don't know if I'm much company but I read all the entries here and I don't block so relax and be you.

Hey happy Christmas guys.

Me I'm not looking forward to it that much.

My son is troublesome and my daughter wants a present I can't afford. An iPhone 6. Those things are amazing but expensive and I know I oughtn't buy it.

It's not that I won't buy a phone but it has to be a 6. All her friends have one. She sees me as a failure I think.

But then I think well she wouldn't be able to do anything with a six she couldn't do with a five.

She just wants to keep up with the Joneses. And you know I don't think that's right.

I feel mean. I guess I would support her if I could afford to but I can't.

What can you do?

Perhaps she has to learn you can't always have everything you want in life. Buddhist say unhappiness is the difference between what you have and what you think you ought to have.

I misquote absolutely everyone so I'm quite sure Buddha hadn't escaped.

I'm not happy this morning. I hope I'm company for you guys. Sometimes you need something you can't have you know. Anyway I hope you'll find me convivial and affable enough. I hope so.

Things went a bit pear shaped with Kay and Mexi and I'm a bit upset about it.

Not really Mexi. For all he talks about being a Christian it occurs to me he's a full red blooded male that lashes out.

I'm not really surprised he gave me a hard time and I expect it'll happy again.

Sorry grumps! 😉

Kay I'm upset about. Sometimes when someone is giving you a hard time it's hard to know how to deal with them.

Kay is such an enigma. I think is Kay a he or a she for a start. I'm not sure it matters but it's difficult even to talk about someone when you don't even know the sex they are.

I feel bad for wondering but Kay is not your average guy. Most guys aren't so keen to have a go.

I don't know. Perhaps Kay is a vulnerable bully that feels important and strong for a few moments upon being on a forum.

My own feelings as ever is I just don't want to upset anyone and it upsets me I'm clashing with Kay.

Kay I'm sorry. I genuinely am.

Still onwards and upwards.

Neither Kay nor I have to be here and people face far worse problems then Kay and I give each other.

I'd say actually that for the most part I very much enjoy Kay and I know that's a view that's generally held. Kay is really funny and generally affable and pleasant.

I accept I'm touchy and I accept that's because I know I have character flaws and I'm defensive. It's not a perfect world and I'm far from perfect. I'd like to think I mean well though.